Problem solving is something parents/caregivers are faced with numerous times everyday. Even things as simple as questioning 'what am I cooking for dinner?' 'Do I have all the ingredients?' 'Now what?' Each of these questions from one simple task of cooking a meal to actually feeding our kids (and ourselves) count towards solving problems. All of these questions are part of our organizing and planning, then initiating system--executive functioning. And when our executive function is struggling--whether as a child or adult--initiating and following through on these tasks can be greatly overwhelming. So what do we do about it? We practice it constantly.
Some ways Handley Regional Library System can help us with this are:
1) Going to the library. The planning and initiation of this is a life skill, but with less stress than the grocery store or our job. Make going to the library part of your routine!
2) Chess. Planning is a cruel step and a positive coping skill that can help us--whether or not we struggle with executive functioning. Play chess at your local library branch.
3) Legos. A great way to help us organize our thoughts and put plans into action to then test, without stress and hassle. Play is the best way to learn. Have you participated in our LEGO Club? There is one at every library branch!
3) STEAM. Start with questions, connect those pieces, problem solve in unique ways and see if you can remain engaged throughout. Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, and Math concepts are all around us in and out of the classroom. The library has STEAM components in most of our programming--check it out.
4) Scrabble. Scrabble is good for making the best out of what you are given while also manipulating your tasks to prioritize use. Play this game at home or at the library.
We also have a great parent-teacher collection that can help you support your child and understand what they are going though. Help build independence in your kids so they can grow and thrive later in life. Happy reading and problem solving with your library!